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Addictions, Codependency,
& Recovery Issues
Addictions
Anyone can become addicted to a variety of substances and
behaviors. Some people appear to be more prone to developing addictions
than others due to a combination of genetic and environmental factors.
There are numerous types of addictions including alcoholism, chemical dependency
(including both illicit and prescription drugs), television, computer and
internet addictions, workaholism, spending/shopping addictions, sex
addiction, compulsive over-eating, compulsive gambling, love and relationship
addictions, exercise addiction, and others. When someone has an addiction,
typically he/she is the last to know it as all addictions have a component of
denial that doesn't allow the addict to see the addiction as the problem.
Often, people begin using a substance or behavior as a solution to problems they
are experiencing. Eventually, their solution becomes the problem when it
progresses to an addiction. Until a person has enough consequences, they
are unlikely to break through their denial and seek help for their addiction.
At Veritas Counseling Center, addiction services offered
for adults and adolescents include assessments, referrals, outpatient
individual, couples, and family therapy, relapse prevention and aftercare.
When appropriate, clients are referred to more intensive outpatient or inpatient
treatment programs. The therapist is also a trained interventionist with
experience in both traditional and invitational
interventions assisting families
with getting resistant addicts into treatment when their own attempts have not
been successful. Because the disease of addiction can be fatal,
interventions can be a life-saving approach.
There is a strong emphasis in helping clients to get
linked up with
12-Step recovery programs in addition to therapy.
The therapist is also involved in her own recovery programs and adds this
additional empathy to her work. She utilizes a family systems approach
seeing addiction as not just an individual problem, but one that affects the
entire family. Whenever possible, spouses and family members are involved
in the treatment process.
The therapist also frequently works with clients who are
returning home from being involved in inpatient treatment programs and provides
ongoing continuing care and relapse prevention through outpatient individual,
couples', and family therapy. When appropriate, adjunct
Equine
Assisted Psychotherapy is also available.
Codependency
Codependent was originally a term to describe spouses of alcoholic and
chemically dependent persons. As time went on, it was recognized that the term
could be applied to people who grew up in dysfunctional families and people who
were involved in relationships with people where something other than chemical
dependency was a primary problem. Melody Beatie defines codependent as “a
person who has let someone else’s behavior affect him or her and is obsessed
with controlling other people’s behavior.”
Using this definition, codependency then is the term we use to describe the
affliction that codependents suffer from (i.e. the tendency to let other’s
behavior affect him/her and become obsessed with controlling other’s behavior).
As an addict gets addicted to their drug, a codependent gets addicted to
the addict. The addict may suffer from alcoholism, chemical dependency, eating
disorders, sexual addiction, compulsive gambling, rage and violence,
underachievement, or a host of other problems. The codependent believes that he
or she can change the behavior of the addict (or others in his/her life) and becomes obsessed with doing
that. When they are unsuccessful at changing others, they may feel
frustrated, responsible, angry, fearful, depressed, anxious, or ashamed.
They tend to worry obsessively about people and situations they cannot change
and their own lives are often chaotic as a result. Codependents come in many forms and may be loud, controlling, and
dominating, or quiet, fearful, and submissive. But their lives become organized
around other people to the extent that they often lose their own identity in the
process. When codependents get help, they are able to get their focus on
themselves and their own problems and the addicts in their lives typically have
increased rates of sustained sobriety because addictions are a family disease.
When codependents are untreated, they tend to have a pattern of unhealthy
addictive sorts of relationships and may struggle with parenting issues as well.
At Veritas Counseling Center, codependency treatment is offered for
individuals, couples, families, and occasionally groups. Weekend Intensive
Workshops and Retreats are also available for various populations that are
involved in codependency recovery.
When appropriate, adjunct
Equine
Assisted Psychotherapy is also available. As with addictions,
12-Step recovery
programs are strongly emphasized and the therapist is committed to continuing
her own recovery involvement as well.
Recovery Issues
People involved in recovery often struggle with a variety of related issues
including continuing periodic post acute withdrawal symptoms, difficulty
expressing emotions appropriately, relationship problems, ACA (adult children of
alcoholics) and other family of origin issues, social adjustment issues,
and sometimes substitute addictions. At Veritas Counseling Center all of
these problems are treated as well and clients can learn new coping skills that
aid them in continuing to address ongoing recovery issues that come up in their
lives. In addition, clients are referred to additional
12-Step Recovery Programs that may help them with tackling family of
origin issues as well as substitute addictions and relationship issues. When
appropriate, adjunct
Equine
Assisted Psychotherapy is also available.
Codependent No More, Melody Beatie, 1987, Hazelden Foundation.
The therapist at Veritas Counseling Center
is also an author and offers free stress management tips to those in recovery as
well as to the general public. For this month's tips visit
www.calmingmeditations.com
© 2003-2014. Veritas Counseling Center, LLC. All rights reserved.
The following links to 12-Step recovery and other resources
may be of interest:
Adult Children of Alcoholics
<http://www.AdultChildren.org/>
Al-Anon/Alateen
<http://www.al-anon.org/>
Alcoholics Anonymous
<http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org/>
Clutterers Anonymous
<http://www.clutterersanonymous.net/>
Cocaine Anonymous World Services
<http://www.ca.org/>
Co-Dependents Anonymous Home Page
<http://www.codependents.org/>
Debtors Anonymous: A Twelve Step Fellowship
<http://www.debtorsanonymous.org/>
Emotions Anonymous
<http://www.mtn.org/EA/>
Gamblers Anonymous Official Home Page
<http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/>
Heroin
Anonymous
<http://www.heroin-anonymous.org>
Marijuana Anonymous
<http://www.marijuana-anonymous.org/>
Nicotine Anonymous
<http://www.nicotine-anonymous.org>
Narcotics Anonymous Official Homepage
<http://www.na.org/>
Nar-Anon is a family support group
<http://naranon.com/>
Obsessive Compulsive Anonymous
<http://hometown.aol.com/west24th>
Overeaters Anonymous World Service Office Home
<http://www.overeatersanonymous.org/>
Recovering Couples Anonymous
<http://www.recovering-couples.org/>
Sex Addicts Anonymous
<http://saa-recovery.org/>
Co Sex Addicts Anonymous (COSA)
<http://www.cosa-recovery.org/
Sexual Compulsives Anonymous
<http://www.sca-recovery.org/>
Workaholics Anonymous Home Page
<http://www.workaholics-anonymous.org>
Compulsive Eaters Anonymous
<http://recovery.hiwaay.net/>
"Energized For Life: Skills to Support one's Recovery"
<http://www.EnergizedForLife.com/>
Hazelden
<http://www.hazelden.org/>
Heroin Times: An Online Magazine
<http://herointimes.com/>
Search the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous
<http://www.whytehouse.com/big_book_search/>
The Recovery Emporium Home Page
<http://www.recoveryemporium.com/>
Recovery Resources Online
<http://soberrecovery.com/>
Self
Help from SelfGrowth.com
<http://www.selfgrowth.com>
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